Things have moved very quickly and in many different directions since I last wrote to you, dear reader. The lifestyle travel consultant / kink concierge business plan that I never envisioned has fallen neatly into place with my developing domme persona. I was most excited to exercise my skills as a mediator between a couple of friends who are disentangling themselves from their prior relationship intensity. De-escalating, as we call it in the polyamory community. My prior training as a mediator and experience with divorcing couples and abusive relationships makes me a pretty solid fit for this kind of delicate negotiation. As it turns out, there may be a market for that too.
What’s this got to do with BDSM?
I don’t know yet, but the way that things have been working out, it is usually better than my best-laid plans anyway. All I know is that I am planning on continuing my journey of developing shibari skills and networking with riggers and bunnies in the New Orleans community. I know several skilled riggers who I would genuinely be honored to learn from. My next steps involve showing up and being open to their wisdom.
In other unexpected news, I made contact with an old friend who suggested we plan a party. I have been reminded lately of the connections I built throughout my life with folks who share a joie de vivre (literally, I know her). More specifically, an openness to sensuality and sexuality that has been hidden for too long, in my opinion. I have always gravitated toward those who shared body-positive, sex-positive, and openly respectful engagement based on mutual consent. Between party planning and kink concierge inquiries, the madam is booked.
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